what do you do, when you know someone loves you, but they are too scared to trust you, so they believe that they can never have a relationship with you? and you love them back?
Patience.
i think yes it does take patience, but how long do you wait? I think time only makes it worse. Time away from someone, allows them to forget, allows them to try to find another person. It does allows yourself to sit and think about what the other person is doing.
Persistency.
i never want to sound needy or annoying. but i think the only way someone truely knows you love them is constantly letting them know. but how do you let them know when they say they 'never' want to be in a relationship with you.
i dont know the answer to this question. so im asking. but i know what i want, and its hard to let that go, when i know i can make that person so happy, hes just over being hurt.
awwww boys are hard. help.
Shoulda been Triplets :P poor ryan.
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Hey pretty girl, sounds like you are doing some soul searching...relationships, love, boys, hurt? You have a big heart and lots of love to give and someone (the right someone) will see that and want to share your life. Any chance you and Ryan would like to come for dinner sometime soon? Let us know, we would love to have you both over. Whitney is here till the 30th and Reme comes home on the 28th. Aurezuh's birthday party is planned for Sunday the 25th at Bibi and Noor's condo in downtown Seattle. Would be nice if you two could come. Love you, give us a call. Aunt Sue
yes we want to come have dinner!!! and yes we'll come to arezuhs bday party! youll have to give us directions to the party or something. im working at victorias secret in southcenter, but would like to spend some time with whitney and reme b4 they leave... we will call you soon!
Come have dinner with us also!
Maddie, I will have Nathan give you directions to Noor and Bibi's, the party is planned for 10:00 in the morning, they are having it in the clubhouse of the condo so they had to choose a time that was available. It is pretty nice, their condo has a fabulous view of the city and the Space Needle. Tell me what your work schedule and school is so we can figure out a time to get together for dinner. What is your address? Send to me via email. Love you pretty girl. Aunt Sue
Maddie dear,
You are a lovely young woman. Your vitality and beautiful heart beams out at the world through those fantastic eyes of yours!
Aww, love..it is easy to fall in love, but difficult to sustain love sometimes. It does take TWO honey, it can't be one-sided. In fact if the other person says no "never" than you have to respect and accept their decision. There is an OLD addage ...there are plenty of fish in the sea.
Time is probably the most important thing in the world. It takes time to develop a loving and kind relationship. It takes time to heal a bruised heart and feelings. You're right about the patience honey. Take your beautiful and loving heart and tuck it back into the lovely velvet box of your soul and wait until a soulmate comes along to open the pretty box. You're working at Victorias Secret..that is my favorite store. The first time I went to the southcenter store was with Aunt Sue and we had TWO double strollers and three other children for a total of 7! We had to take turns going into the store and looking! Now one of those toddlers works in the same store. WOW! Life is good and I am glad you are a big part of mine.
Take care dear, hello to Ryan.
Aunt Dee
BY THE WAY YOU ARE UNFORGETTABLE..NO MATTER IF YOU ARE WITH SOMEONE OR NOT!!
BY THE WAY YOU ARE UNFORGETTABLE..NO MATTER IF YOU ARE WITH SOMEONE OR NOT!!
Sis,
Finding love is a long and difficult task, and one that most people go about all the wrong way. Most of us are always chasing it down, running after it and seeking it wherever we think it might be hiding. And, of course, we end up alone.
In Eastern philosophy there is the concept that to go left you must actually go right, and love is something like that. Instead of loving someone else, you must first love yourself, and you must work at becoming a full and complete person (and, yes, it is work), someone who is happy with who they are and what they are, independent of anyone else.
Only then can someone love you, and only then will you find love that will last.
You have to be willing to say "I am who I am, either love me or don't, I will not become something I'm not to gain your love." When you are willing to do this, and when the reason you're willing to do this is because you love who you are, then you will discover people who love you and respect you for who you are. Until that day, people will only love you for what they think you might be.
But my advice is to stop looking and stop searching. The butterfly settles on your finger only when it is still, not when you are waving about wildly trying to catch it. Wait, and it will come.
Love you.
Tyler, your writing gives me butterflies!!!
I am so impressed with the people in our family, Dee you and Tyler have such a way with words, you should consider collaborating on a book....:) good advice for our pretty Maddie from both of you. Maddie and Ryan are joining us for Aurezuh's birthday this Sunday, a great time to give lots of hugs and sage advice :) We love you Maddie Sue!
Maddie,
The condo is located at 819 Virginia street, seattle, WA 98101.
Basically you take mercer street exit from either north or south I-5. Head south or take a left at the end of the off ramp. Go straight until you reach Virginia street and take a slight right onto Virginia Street, find parking. The building is down 1-2 blocks on the left. Use the call box for unit 1010 or call me or Lina.
As for the issue of Love in your original blog. From my experience men don't have the emotional maturity to think or feel about their emotions and love. They get to that point after they have some serious soul searching about who they really want to be as a man. If you want this man to understand who he is and what he is missing get him to try to understand himself, who he wants to be and his sense of integrity. When he understands himself he will be able to open up his emotions to others.
Yours,
Nathan
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